Friday, December 4, 2009

We have THE TEMPEST at Hearts' Haven!

Our Shakespeare Club will be meeting on Monday, December 7th.........6:40ish pm

We will be reading...........

THE TEMPEST........
And, the casting is as follows:
Prospero-Daniel
Ariel-Gavin
Caliban-Maddelyn
Gonzalo-Matthew Mc
Miranda-Bethany
Ferdinand-Kyle
Antonio-Sarah
Stephano-Sierra
Sebastian-Chari
Alonso-Sierra
Trinculo-Sarah
Iris-Samuel
Ceres-Kyle
Juno-Garrett
Adrian-Samuel
Francisco-Garrett
And, we will follow this with Love's Labour Lost and, I am thinking, The Taming of the Shrew........start looking for your next book!
Anyone interested in watching some movies of the Shakespeare plays we read???
Advent Blessings,
Chari

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Happy Birthday to Matthew!!!


Happy 19th Birthday, Matthew!!!!



Happy Thanksgiving, too!!



We miss you!!

You will find your birthday card below.......


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Matthew has had quite a busy year since his 18th birthday!
He had three leads in three plays.......built two sets......graduated from high school....visited beautiful places....skied & shovelled.....

....applied for the Rotary Youth Exchange Program........

.........went to Switzerland....and more!!!

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Here, is his year in pictures.....
AS YOU LOOK THROUGH>>>>PICK ONE FAVORITE PHOTO...
.......and tell us which one you like the best and why!


I got carried away.........there are a lot of pictures........




......and I could have used one, where I used two, or three.......or more :)



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Aw, well...it is my perogative..... :)

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(BLOGGER puts all of those wide spaces in the post......not me!!!)
GRRRRRRR!



Matthew & his two brothers, last November 2008
Garrett & Malachy
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Matthew had the lead in charter school fall play,
DON'T MENTION MY NAME
a few photos follow


this was actually just before his birthday last fall...


He also built the set.
Matthew with two co-stars.


Matthew, with his sister Sarah in the scarf....and Gavin and Kayla.







Did you know Matthew has an addiction?





Yes, we don't talk about it much.





He is addicted to babies......





....and,





he has this strange power over them.......





......getting them to sleep,





even if they were not sleepy.





Even if they just had a nap.









Above is Matthew with a new Benedict,





my little godson, son of John & Gloria, of San Francisco.

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Oops!!!





The 2 photos below are NOT from his last year, but from winter 20..





08........I told you I got carried away :)









Matthew had a great role in E/R, a play performed at the local junior college.





It was his first college role.





He was SO funny, playing a clean-cut kid who was tricked into taking an ecstasy tablet.





Can you tell?










&

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Okay, now the rest is up-to-date!





Matthew's next role at the college was a lead part.





The play: INSPECTING CAROL





It was a play within a play........





a down-and-out community theater does A Christmas Carol for their winter show....









Matthew' part is hard to explain quickly....





....but within the play.....





...his six-foot-two character ends up playing Tiny Tim.....





...so, you can imagine the silliness.









See below....these photos, and the two above taken by Jason.









&





This was the FUNNIEST monologue........





.....and it is one of the biggest regrets in my life that I did not pirate a video of this!!!













And Tiny Tim says, "God bless us, everyone!"









That is Anne holding up the train! ;)





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On the chair lift.....







Don't you love that mountain in the background?








The usual crowd:




Sarah, Maddelyn, Gavin, Malachy, Matthew & Garrett









A father and his sons: Matthew, Marty, Malachy & Garrett

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And, then, we will really be missing Matthew every winter now,





for the rest of our lives......below is how he spends some of his winter






Garrett & Matthew in the backyard




Matthew on the roof, looking at the back of our house

(You should see how much snow we had in 2008!!)






Matthew cut out a little space on the roof for himself.







that's him again.....

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We went to visit their Great Grandma in Eureka, California on the Northern coast in March









These are the first photos with my new camera




















Matthew is browsing in one of his favorite haunts....




...a used bookstore in Old Town Eureka........where he feeds his other addiction.








I have NO idea who he inherited that from???







Across the street from the bookstore.......all six kids.....you probably know them by now :)








You also probably know that Matthew is always the tall one......wonder if his brothers will ever catch up...they are doing some serious growing now!















Maddelyn loves Matthew!!








We are at "Sunset Beach" as we call it.......we have no idea what this place is really called. But I used to ask the kids when they were little if they wanted to go watch the sunset at the beach...and the gave it the name!












How cool a shot is this???








Matthew & Maddelyn.








On the bluff looking over the ocean.









How's THAT for a piece of driftwood!!








Six kids from Hearts' Haven







Matthew with two sisters.....Maddelyn & Anne









I love this!






Love the sky and ocean......stripes behind the vertical






Uncle Steve got us out of bed at 4:30am to watch thousands of geese take off.....we did, but it was much farther away than he imagined....it was still fun to be in the hush of the early morning, before others were about....and to see the sun rise......followed by donuts!






You will notice Sarah is missing fom the above picture....she refused to get up so early. :)






Thanks, Uncle Steve, for the inspiration!!








Now the sun is up.....the kids with Uncle Steve......their Great-uncle






This place was just south of Eureka, near a preserve where we love to visit.






Still on the northern California coast, we went to visit Fern Canyon.....



.....one of our favorite places in the whole world.









Matthew & his littlest brother, Malachy.






We had never been there in March before......before the State park folks have placed the footbridges.......thus we had to walk barefoot on rocks.....in freezing cold water....needless to say...I did not do much walking :)






Matthew and his littlest sister, Maddelyn, walking in the Redwoods above Fern Canyon






Love the shadows!






on a foot bridge in the Redwoods






3 boys : 3 girls




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The six again.....



....on the way home from Eureka,



on State Highway 299....this is the Trinity River






I like how Maddelyn is turned opposite the rest....it just changes the whole perspective!!







Up at midnight to celebrate Garrett's 12th birthday as soon as the clock turned.


Matthew sits with his stack of books found at the above bookstore....$1 each!!!







Matthew has been part of a cast of homeschooling/homeschooled kids making a WWII movie......this is before the shower.


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Matthew & Katie


In April, Matthew went down to Davis orientation for the Rotary Youth Exchange....

......and Katie came along, as a rebounder.....

..........one who had returned in the previous year from an exchange


Katie is my friend Sheila's daughter......we have known Katie since she was five years old.


The jacket she is wearing is typical of all the exchange students.

They wear it when they are to represent Rotary.


Notice all of the pins?

The students exchange pins when they meet and collect more on their travels.


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After a mass in April, we stopped for a visit at the Klamath National Wildlife Refuge.



Matthew & two sisters, yet again. Maddelyn & Anne.




Matthew is the tall one...Marty is driving the car....while everyone else walked.





This is the random picture here...of the three boys the day Malachy was born.....

October 20, 2001


Garrett is 4 1/2 years & Matthew is just about 11 years old




Matthew and his mountain


Taken April 2009

at my birthday picnic at the lake

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Matthew & his big sister, at her graduation with her AA from our local junior college.


May 2009


The close-up



And, the full shot.


We took some time in a crazy week,
to take a hike to McCloud Falls so AJ could see
some local falls before he returned to San Diego.

Matthew lounging on a rock just before Lower Falls
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Matthew had the lead in the charter school's spring play:
The Gazebo
It was so good!
He also built this set, too.
Here is a photo essay......
Matthew is writing the plans for the set....
.....the door is from Gloria's parents house,
as is most of the furniture on the set......



Kyle, Matthew's #1
Marty is in the background
In this case,
Matthew led Marty through his building process,
instead of the other way around....

The same three.........

The cast rehearsing on the almost finished set.......Matthew is to the left.
And, now for the play.......


Matthew & Sierra
aka Elliot & Nell
This was the press release photo
Check out that gazebo!!
Matthew created it out of one piece of cardboard, it is still in one piece!
Sarah created the hearts.


Matthew & Sierra in real 1950'2 clothing.
We were playing around.......
the photo developer and an old lady would not believed I had just taken this photo the day before......

Ah, there is Matthew with a baby in his arms, yet again......
......this time it is Liam, Sierra's youngest brother.

Elliot was a writer.......you may have seen this on Matthew's facebook profile lately......



Nell & Elliot



Kyle & Sierra, siblings, and Matthew


Sierra & Matthew, and Maddelyn as the housekeeper.
Near the end of the play........this was on the night of filming,
not an actual run of the play.....
.....it was close to 2am
We have here, Sierra, Kyle, Matthew, Max & Samuel (another brother of Sierra)
Max had to learn his part in just a couple of hours due to losing a member of the cast for the filming.........you can see Matthew & Kyle trying not to crack up...Max had quite the monologue...and he had to ad lib sometimes...and it was FUNNY!
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Gloria & Matthew & baby Bennie

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At the end of May 2009,
Matthew participated in our charter school's high school graduation.
It was so lovely! Everyone said so.
It was the best graduation I have ever been to!
Matthew had been with our educational facilitator since he was in first grade.
A brief photto essay follows, again.......
..........because I can not seem to limit myself to one...or two...or four photos........


Above, Matthew introduces the keynote speaker, whom he had chosen and invited:
one of his favorite college teachers.......and Anne's favorite college teacher:
Eve Thompson, who had just retired the week before. :((((
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A few students had volunteered.....
......or, in Matthew's case, been volunteered, to perform for graduation.
In typical Matthew fashion,
it was the night before graduation that he finally
decided to recite a favorite poem of his.
Some of you may remember he won county in Poetry Out Loud...
...this was his third poem for state.
He was able to fill this packed 500 seat auditorium with his voice.
Of course...our family is quite good at being loud, I mean projecting.
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The Glove and the Lions
By Leigh Hunt



King Francis was a hearty king, and loved a royal sport,
And one day as his lions fought, sat looking on the court;
The nobles filled the benches, and the ladies in their pride,
And 'mongst them sat the Count de Lorge, with one for whom he sighed:
And truly 'twas a gallant thing to see that crowning show,
Valour and love, and a king above, and the royal beasts below.

*



Ramped and roared the lions, with horrid laughing jaws;
They bit, they glared, gave blows like beams, a wind went with their paws;
With wallowing might and stifled roar they rolled on one another;
Till all the pit with sand and mane was in a thunderous smother;
The bloody foam above the bars came whisking through the air;
Said Francis then, "Faith, gentlemen, we're better here than there."


*
De Lorge's love o'erheard the King, a beauteous lively dame
With smiling lips and sharp bright eyes, which always seemed the same;
She thought, the Count my lover is brave as brave can be;
He surely would do wondrous things to show his love of me;
King, ladies, lovers, all look on; the occasion is divine;
I'll drop my glove, to prove his love; great glory will be mine.


*


She dropped her glove, to prove his love, then looked at him and smiled;
He bowed, and in a moment leaped among the lions wild:
The leap was quick, return was quick, he has regained his place,
Then threw the glove, but not with love, right in the lady's face.
"By God!" said Francis, "rightly done!" and he rose from where he sat:
"No love," quoth he, "but vanity, sets love a task like that."


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Shelly, our educational facilitator, handing Matthew his diploma.
That is a photo of Matthew on the big screen behind them.
And, that really is the Statue of Liberty!


A crowd of well-wishers present at the graduation.
Looks like we have Maria and some of her kids: Sierra, Samuel, Kyle, Christopher
And Gavin & Max, and Matthew's siblings......

The graduate and his parents, Marty & Chari.
You can see he does not get his height from either of us. :)


The graduate & his five siblings.


The graduate & the little brother.
So sweet!


And lastly, the graduation dance, where Matthew & Sarah won the swing dance competition.
I know it is dark.....but I included it because it is when Matthew injured his knee.....a few minutes after this photo was snapped.......and he ended up on crutches for a month or so......
Taken by MaryJane.

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Matthew at our summer bon fire.
With Kyle, Will, Christopher, Malachy,
Sarah, Sierra and a bunch of others not in the photo.......



Matthew with baby Liam...again


Their cousin Michael from New Hampshire came for a visit.
Marty took them for a ride up the mountain.
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We spent ten days at Willa's house......
Matthew led a team of wigwam builders......

Aidan & Garrett look on.....

Sean & Matthew slept in the wigwam......and got rained on the second night :)


Matthew & his siblings and some of their best friends........


Matthew and his siblings in Old Town Sacramento
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Matthew at beautiful Dunsmuir City Park, for Catherine's 10th birthday party.



Which included swmming in the great big city pool!

Matthew & Catherine, the birthday gal!
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The 4th of July, as celebrated in our small town.

First, Matthew & his siblings during the Fun Walk.


Matthew, waiting for the parade and the Star-Spangled Banner singer......
with Evan & Miss Miranda, Sheila & Garrett


Oh, look! Matthew found a friend in Charlotte!!


Fireworks on the lake, like every year! And, the crowd gets bigger each year, too!
Is that Charlotte sitting in Matthew's lap??
Ha, ha.......see the crutches in the front of the photo?

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Matthew stands with the local Rotary Club sponsoring him to Switzerland.
They are so happy!
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Matthew & Max swim up to John & Bennie...
.....to play with the baby....how sweet is that?


Matthew & Max in the back row....of the college barbershop choir.
Matthew and his three sisters joined for the summer session.

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In July, Willa's family came up to see us for a week.......
This was the boy team in the boys vs girls
in a game I cannot remeber the name of....but kind of like charades.......
Sean, Liam, Matthew, Gavin & Malachy

I love these smiles.
Matthew & Sean........friends.




Relaxing........its all about to break loose.......



Willa's boys and mine...only Brendan was missing....


On bench, obviously impressed with the photo shoot are....

Aidan, Patrick & Malachy


Standing tall in the rear are Keiron, Garrett, Sean, Liam & Matthew




Moments before Willa was trying to leave for home......all of those boys began throwing something at each other.....I cannot seem to remember what.....it made it hard to get them into the car :)

Malachy-Liam-Matthew-Keiron-Sean


(Is Sean dancing?? Hey, Clare!! I think he might actually be dancing! ;) )
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My kids put on a dance party on our front lawn in the first week of August


It became known as "Matthew's going-away party"




Matthew & Sierra S.....his leading lady from THE GAZEBO

(See photos above)



Matthew & the "boys"
~Micah~Garrett~Matthew McW~Matthew~
~Daniel McW~Kyle~Gavin~
~Samuel~Malachy~


Matthew & Sierra B.
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Daniel & Matthew McW with Matthew & Garrett

on Matthew's last full day at home


The night before we took Matthew away......there was champagne......and toasts.


Anne, Matthew, Maddelyn, Garrett & Marty


Matthew hugs Anne goodbye,

as we pull out of the driveway,

to take him to Switzerland,
via San Francisco


On his way out of own, Matthew stopped to say goodbye to


Louise, Evan, Miss Miranda & the wee princeling.....I was there when he was born :)




Matthew with Sheila (Katie's mom....see photo somewhere above),
the one who most inspired (tempted???)
him to apply for the Rotary Youth Exchange Program

This was taken just moments before Matthew left our hometown for the last time in 2009





Two nights before Matthew left for Switzerland, we stayed with Gloria & John


Here are my five youngest kids (out of six :) ) and Joan & Gloria and their five youngest kids, also out of six. :)
Chari~Catherine~Clementine~Maddelyn~Malachy~
~Charlotte-in-Matthew's arms~

Clairemarie~Sarah~Garrett~Gloria~

~Benedict (my little Godson)~John~



Another photo of Matthew holding Charlotte..........anyone else notice a theme here?


the night before he left for Switzerland.....I believe he tucked her in and promised her some Swiss chocolate. :)




Sarah, his creative and fashion-savy sister, placing his pins on his Rotary jacket, the night before he left for Switzerland, at Gloria's house.........up WAAAY too late for what time we need to arise.


We were quite clever with his pins......see the starfish? It is a real one!




Matthew, moments before he went through security, on his way to Switzerland.





He does not know I took this photo. I love it!


It was the last time Sarah & I saw him in person.....


....August 10th, our 24th wedding anniversary


San Francisco Airport
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And that my friends, was a walk down Memory Lane for Matthew's 19th year of life.......NOT a dull year!
Please leave note of birthday greetings for the boy........
We love you & miss you, Matthew!
Hope you enjoyed the journey!
Love,
your family,
waiting for you at Our Hearts Haven.
P.S. I could not get any photos of Matthew in Switzerland......please see Matthew's Facebook albums for those.
I will fix typos later...after I have had enough sleep!!

Friday, November 20, 2009

My Hearts' Haven Daybook

Written on Saturday evening, November 14th, while sitting in an old dance hall, built in 1906, while my four younger kids and their friends enjoy open ballroom dance......





I can only write these daybook entries when I can.....as you may have noticed......


Outside My Window.......it is a clear, freezing cold evening.....it was 28* when we left the house for the dance hall. BRRRRRRR!!!!

Last night, we had our first snowfall......we got perhaps a half an inch......maybe 3/4....

It was so beautiful this morning......everything all white. The snow in the shade never even melted.





I am thinking........that I love having kids who want to go out every Saturday night.......ballroom dancing!!

I am thankful for.......a woodstove to heat up our house.......with wood cut by my husband and sons.....and HOT TEA!!!

I am especially grateful as I sit freezing, with steam rising from my mouth, in this 1906, NOT heated dance hall!



From the kitchen.........Gloria and John are here for the weekend, from San Francisco.....and tonight we ate lamb loin chops (mmm, good, Gloria!), roasted diced root vegetables.......including carrots and turnips from our garden......Lebanese salad......steamed spinach with peanut sauce and steamed kale. For dessert, the rare pre-packaged treat....Ghiradelli's double chocolate brownie with ice cream.



I am wearing......let's see...leggings, knee socks, shirt, sweater and winter coat.....I am trying to keep warm...not doing too bad.....except for that numb nose :)



I am creating........a writing workshop using IEW and a Shakespeare Club.

Hmmm....I think I need to add those two items to my daybook.....

Ah, and an essay as a college reference letter.......





I am going.....to get a good night's sleep tonight! And every night! How is that for positive thinkin'?



I am reading.........I am over halfway through Walden; Or Life in the Woods by Henry David Thoreau. Reading Back of the North Wind aloud to the boys......not much...we need to get back into our reading habit.....

I wrote that above not too long ago....and it is still true :/

In the meantime, since the last DayBook post..... I have also read, finally, Betsy and Joe's Wedding by Maud Hart Lovelace, Neonatal Resusitation, Bride and Prejudice and Zombies by Seth Grahame-Smith and Jane Austen, Tis by Frank McCourt and who knows what else.....

I am about 150 pages into my first Dickens' novel, Bleak House. I had read about 50 pages before I realized it was about 850 total! I had assumed about 4-500. Once started, I was committed. Maddelyn recently read it and we want to see the movie. So, I have got to read it first...or I never will.





I am hoping.............in a week, to go see my 88 year-old grandma who lives on the Northern California coast



I am hearing......music: Swing.....Tangoes......Waltzes......Salsa......and more! And laughter, too!





I am wondering.......if we can get passed a long-term fall project shortly.....





Around the house.......I am sure not much has changed since the last time.......except, I did take care of a huge pile on my desk...now it is a very small pile of things I need to do related to a computer.....I am wondering how fast that small pile will double...or triple.....I have got to find some self-control!

Oh, actually, as I write...my house looks like I have another family visiting who has five young children :)

Now Showing..........still watching James Herriot's All Creatures Great and Small......we are just starting the third, of seven, seasons. We have also recently re-watched Dan in Real Life. That movie is so funny. We also re-watched Meet the Parents. These movies have similarities. There are language and occasional adult themes or rude teenager behavior present in these movies...not for the kids.

In the schoolroom.....I don't really feel like writing this tonight....suffice it to say there is ballroom dancing, IEW writing workshop lesson 1, piano and math going on....and reading.

In our IEW Writing Workshop.....we have covered Lesson One in the B version of the Student writing Intensive....which covers Units I &II. I am doing this as a weekly co-op with my friend Maria's oldest four kids and my oldest three, of those still at home. The kids loved it! All of them, from age 10 years to age 17 years are pleased with the method. Me, too! I wish I had started this when Anne and Matthew were younger. I may even love this as much as Math-U-See. :)

In our Shakespeare Club.....we are scheduled to begin on Monday night. We will start with Much Ado About Nothing. We are going to try to think of a better name than "club"...any ideas? This group of kids will pretty much be the same group that is here dancing. And, practically the same group that did the last play in the spring, The Gazebo. These kids enjoy each others' company well. They are so good.





One of my favorite things......knowing that when we go to see Grandma......we will also be going to see the ocean. Having been raised in So. Cal...and having once lived for three years a few houses from the Boardwalk in Venice Beach.......I am quite attached to that ocean.





Signs of the seasons......snow on the ground, but not much. Freezing temps. Coats, gloves, scarves, leggings, and hot chocolate.

A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week........Writing Workshop.......our first Shakespeare Club gathering.......teach a childbirth class....help Matthew finish a series of seven essays for a college application........send the younger boys to play at Shawna's for the day.....see Romeo & Juliet at the local high school.....take Malachy to see a new-to-us orthodontist for his difficult dental issues.....and then drive to the coast afterward to go see grandma through next Monday, when we return home to face Thanksgiving Week.......and a visit from Anne!



Special prayer requests on my mind this week.........for a very special intention, for our priest who is recovering from a herniated disc in his back.....job issues for several men I know.....for the grieving homeschool moms.....



St. Gerard's List..........

Here is the list from the last Daybook:

Tonia, Suzanne, Jody, Suzanne, Clara.......the last two are nieces......

Tonia has delivered baby number 3, her first boy, Nathan...all is well!

Suzanne delivered baby number 5, a little boy: Ephraim....all is well!

Clara delivered baby number 5, a sweet great-niece, Eden Rose, on Anne's birthday!!

Jody is due in December, baby#5, sister to Suzanne above...and Gloria way above :)

I have no idea if my niece Suzanne has had her baby...anyone??

To add to my list here: a local friend, Shirley expecting in July.

And, especially all of the woman in my last childbirth class....several have little to no support for their pregnancies, their lives.....



I am currently scrapbooking......I was just thinking today that I cannot even remember what I was last scrapbooking, it has been so long...still since the last week of June, at Willa's home.......sigh...I may need to go visit her just to get myself jumpstarted again :)



I am exercising.........uh, I am?? I am hoping to remember to start later this week.......



Here is picture thought I am sharing........



THE THREE COUSINS!

Passed out together are Hudson, aged 7, Malachy, aged 7 and Avery, aged 4.5

visiting Geogie-Pop's house in December 2007.

love & blessings,

chari

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Much Ado About Nothing!

Our Shakespeare Club will, God willing, especially barring any illness in our cast, begin on November 16th, at 6:30 pm, at Hearts' Haven.

I DO wish all of you could join us......perhaps we will read through a play when you come to visit?

In the meantime, the cast for our first play,


MUCH ADO ABOUT NOTHING
is as follows:


Beatrice-Maddelyn
Leonato-Gavin
Claudio-Matthew Mc
Don Pedro-Kyle
Benedick-Daniel
Hero-Sierra
Dogberry-Samuel
Friar Francis-Samuel
Don John-Garrett
Verges-Garrett
Borachio-Sarah
Margaret-Sarah
Messenger-Sarah
Ursula-Bethany
Antonio-Bethany
A Watchman-Bethany
Conrade-Chari
Narrator-Chari
Balthasar-Chari
A Sexton-Malachy
A boy-Malachy

If for some unexpected reason, anyone else joins us, I will give them my parts, or any of the doubled-up parts.

So, look over your parts if you have time, maybe mark your lines.....whatver works for you.

We are looking forward to this opportunity of reading through the play with all of you......it will be quite fun & interesting.

And, to those of you poor college students who have gone away from us.......we would love to try to read through a play or two this summer.......we DO miss you and wish you could be a part of our little group.

See you next week!

Blessings,

Chari

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

It's an Un-Birthday Post!


Happy Un-Birthday to You!

And, to me, too! :)
I do have a friend who is NOT clelebrating her un-birthday today!


Happy Birthday to Bethany!

Bethany is a new friend.....my girls love her...and Malachy finds her a delightful and patient ballroom dance partner :) I think she is 23 years today. Birthday prayers for you, too!
And because I am here today.. ..I do not want to forget that Sue is not celebrating her
UN-Birthday tomorrow either.......

Happy Birthday to Su(e)!!!

Sue is my friend who goes all the way to the age of 14 years. I think she may be my only friend from that time period with whom I am still in contact....from Agoura High School, in Agoura, CA. We have fun and wonderful...and stressful.....memories of that time.....Happy birthday prayers, for you!

In the meantime...just some random thoughts.....aka Haven Heartbeats.....

GRATEFUL & LOOKIN' GOOD:

I am so grateful to my friend Patty who has been tutoring my kids in math in the past two years.....I think this is the third year. My kids have blossomed in math under her tutelage...she got Matthew to and through Alegbra I & Geometry, and of course, this positively affected his SAT scores. She helped Anne get caught up and was there any time Anne had a math question while taking classes at the college. And last semester, she began working with Sarah & Maddleyn.....and these girls have made great progress though their books......and they are addicted to being tutored by Patty. They just loathe missing a date with her.

Did I mention I was so grateful? THANKS PATTY!

And, as aside, Patty & her husband have been working very hard, eating right and walking like crazy......and Patty, you are looking good! Congratulations on all of that hard work paying off! Now, to see if I can be inspired........

THE WEATHER, CURRENTLY:

The below was written orginally on October 14th:
I hear tell we have received over 3 inches of rain yesterday.....three outings yesterday were cancelled due to the high winds and heavy rain.......this was a good thing for us....we got to stay close to home and get some schooling in! Our woodstove was most efficient and we were melting, even one slow log at a time......it was 80* when we went to bed...and 78* when we awakened. Good enough for me...no fire till tonight.

And, as the clouds lifted behind our house a bit last evening, I saw snow in them thar mountains........we have not seen Mount Shasta since Monday evening...can't wait to see what it looks like after this storm! It has been quite bare lately........I have a photo I took a day before this storm.......so we can compare. Eventually.

And, now an update on the weather now, as of Nov 4th.........we have had five gorgeous UN-November days.....near 70*...hear tell tomorrow, November is returning for good. Brrrr.

HOMESCHOOLING:

Since it is ME we are talking about here, you will not be surprised that we still do not have a rhythm going.......but, we are geting somewhere....and I am trying to bring back more of the method of homeschooling I used for my older kids, when they were the same age as Malachy & Garrett. We now have five read alouds going as well as studying a "composer of the month" and reading a picture book author, one at a time. This moment we are reading through Steven Kellogg's picture books, listening to Mendelssohn, reading Greek Myths, Howard Pyle's second King Arthur book and Back of the The North Wind by George MacDonald....as well as books about Leif Erikson and Saint Therese.
We are just finishing up a study of Bald Eagles, a good choice because we see them frequently enough near where we live....and we have done our first lapbook. Malachy enjoyed this immensely and Garrett tolerated it. We are about to start a study of animal classification and have started watching BBC's The Life Of Mammals. GREAT series!!! Our library has it, if anyone local wants to check it out. We will also do a lapbook with the classification. The boys and I are geting more intimate with the Vikings in history.
They are zipping through their Math-U-See books because they have already learned the concepts. Both will be starting new books very soon......Malachy next week....actually, as an update, Malachy is already through 5 lessons in his nBeta book. He loves the new concepts: inequalities, place value notation, rounding and estimation. Both of them are all over the piano, starting to give Maddelyn competiton for time at the ivory keys. Garrett is currently reading through a chapter book series......and this is very encouraging. I cannot wait till he can read the Lord of the Rings Trilogy. That will be a happy day indeed.

The girls are managing their high school curricula fairly well. This is the first time I let the high schoolers just study whatever history period for the year they wanted.......instead of what the family was doing (actually, the family always studied what the high schoolers' were doing)...and it is going just fine, and it is almost easier. I miss the family-wide study and conversation...but this seems to be what is working best for our family now.

Sarah is doing a medieval study that I wrote just for her and her learning style. Maddelyn is doing Mother of Divine Grace American history syllabus. For science, Sarah is doing biology and Maddelyn is doing Mother of Divine Grace's earth science. It is kind of cool to live in volcano-land and take field trips to make her science more "alive"...if rocks can be alive ;) Maddelyn is tackling Latin and doing fairly well....I appreciate her motivation and determination. I look ahead....and eventually she will be passing my brain power up....Willa will have to help her then!!! Sarah is taking a German class through our charter school. She has a fantasy about joining a youth exchange program and going to a German-speaking country, like Austria, perhaps. She wants to be more ready than Matthew was.....she is also appreciating Patty letting her use the Rosetta Stone when she visits Patty's house.

They are both starting their high school projects now. Both will be sewing and Patty has agreed to mentor them.......they are both sewing different skirts.

WORK:

I have worked a bit more lately. At least that is what the paycheck reflects. :)

Last night I started the November series of childbirth classes. I teach three classes in a series, every other month, excluding summer. The demographics were a different situation than I have experienced in the last year. I have nine pregnant women. Three came without any partner......another with her 16yo cousin, another with her mom. Of the other four, one is a married couple. That's it. Just one. They almost looked out of place.....no, they did. Of the nine, three had no transportation of their own.....and two had no idea how they were going to get home. I offered both a ride....one's dad showed up for her ride....and the other disappeared.....just simply vanished.......weird. One pulled me aside to share one of her deep secrets with me. The dad who picked up his daughter is worried about who will be with her when she has the baby..........wow. There is a lot of stress in that room.


And, here was a phone call I received just before my class yesterday: a girl called for her cousin who is 16.........to sign her up.........so she does not miss the class.......she says "I really want her to go to the class....she needs to go, right?"........and is also informed me that she is begging her cousin to breastfeed her baby......I ask the caller how old she is...she says, 16 years also....my!

I am so glad these girls are choosing life for their babies......last night's class is a reminder that that the support must continue now that they have chosen life......they need parenting support, and more. I am not referring to the government social services either.......that is another whole story...and I am not going there right now. I am so grateful to the local pregnancy center in our little town. They SHINE at this kind of support. One of my friends is the director.....God created Donna for this job. She is awesome. I am so proud of her and the work her people do. Thank you!

Nurses only have a moment with their patients.....it really does take teamwork for all of us to work together.....we see the needs, but there is not much time for us to do much. So, we model appropriate behaviors, we care non-judgementally.......and we smile and hug. Research has shown that the nursing care a woman receives in her childbirth experience can affect her parenting......we really can do important work in our little windows of opportunity.

BIRTHDAYS:

Why all of the posts about birthdays last month? Well, I had been neglecting my blog......and so I challenged myself to post more by focusing on the Octbober birthdays, of which there are a lot...and I missed some, too!!

Happy Birthday to my friend Lisa, on the 28th! And, maybe a nephew, too......I believe Damien's birthday is the same date, or right around there.

Damien's brother Joseph had a birthday on the 15th.....and he and his wife are due to have a little girl in about 8 weeks.

My cousin Mark had a Halloween birthday.

I am sure I might be missing someone.....if so, I am sorry!

Matthew has a birthday coming up on Thanksgiving Day this year......I hear he is worried about a birthday post.......maybe full of incriminating photos?

ST. GERARD'S LIST:

My friend Maria is expecting her 8th baby!! She is due May 20th. Prayers for a low risk pregnancy appreciated!

Gloria's sister-in-law Jody is due in December with baby #5.

Our niece Suzanne is due any moment, I think, with baby #3.

And her brother Joseph and wife Christine are due in early January with baby #1.

I wonder who I am leaving off the list......

We pray a daily Memorare for all expectant moms and in thanksgiving for all delivered.

Clara, our niece, had her 5th baby, Eden Rose, on Anne's 21st birthday.

And, Suzanne, Gloria's sister, had her 5th baby in September.

Louise had her wee fella in July....of which I gratefully got to be a part of that experience.

They were all on our list of friends expecting in the past few months.......

PRAYER REQUESTS:

I know I will have a hard time remembering these right now.........but......

For a friend's baby, who may have something wrong with him.....his name is Ephram.

For another friend and her family.....for the dad's job situation......he has a temporary job at the moment......we are begging God to beg the owners to keep him on. Join us?

For a friend who is an older lady, a "pen pal" of mine....her husband has health issues and her son has health issues......and various other needs.
For a family who has adopted six children (a sibling group), adding to their four they already have.

For all college students.......as they cope in the world without their family support.....and try to maintain their faith in this hostile world.

For a certain person I know to get into the college of his choice.

And, of course, for all women who are pregnant and have no support.

For other private intentions.......

Do you have any requests for us to pray for you?

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Well, I think I will wrap this up and get it posted before it becomes extremely outdated!

Blessings to you and yours!!
With love & Prayers,
Chari

Monday, October 19, 2009

It's The Little Man's Birthday Today......

EIGHT years ago, we had this.......












Anne, 13 years old, proxy for the godparents at Malachy's baptism


Also, Father Hunter & Sarah, 8 years





Garrett, 4.5 years & Malachy




Malachy & godfather, Uncle Christopher






Malachy with godmother, Aunt Dana


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And, now...........we have scenes from the latest year in Malachy's life........



In the snow.......at night.....couldn't wait to get out there...

........at least this one time he has shoes on!!!





He loved tee ball this year, being on Abraham's (son of Shawna) team....

....his taller friend next to him there.......




Too cute!






With oldest sister Anne, when she graduated with her AA in May



With his oldest brother, and tallest, at Matthew's High School graduation in May





In the Lake at our annual Catholic homeschool campout




Malachy & one of his favorite friends, Paddy (son of Willa),

in one of their many imaginary games...



Malachy with his friend Winona....

....another one he has grown up with since birth...

...that also includes Abraham & Paddy above, too



Malachy hated baths his first year of life...

....but has been a lake boy ever since.....




One of his duplo creations.......this was a church





Paddy, Aidan & Malachy....friends since their forever started :)





This summer with Catholic homeschooling friends at Castle Lake,

Clementine, another "forever" friend, in the background





I love this action shot!

At a public pool for Catherine G.'s birthday party....such fun!






By the Sacramento River at a lovely park.....

........picnicking for Catherine's birthday




The brothers, Garrett & Malachy,
the night of the Taiko concert,
held outdoors, at the base of the mountain.....nice August night.


Malachy with one of his favorite dance partners, Bethany!!
Taken at our summer 2009 dance party.



Malachy and big sister Anne, at the same party.


Winona & Malachy created this special mask and a cape for her little brother, Jade.





Malachy cuddling a chihuahua friend, after he and Winona had bathed the two dogs.




Malachy has loved the felines around Hearts' Haven since he realized their existence.




Malachy with two of his best friends......sisters Clairemarie & Clementine.
Berrypicking, summer '09.



Malachy loves kite flying!

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Happy birthday, Malachy!!!
We love you!!!!
We thank God every day for bringing you to our family.
Love from your family at Our Hearts' Haven!!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Happy Birthday to Jiddee!!

Today is my father-in-law's birthday!
OCTOBER 18th


He is 86 years young!


I always know how old he is because he is 70 years older than whatever Sarah is at the time. :)
She was only 6 months old at his 70th birthday party.

His name is Woodrow...


....and everybody calls him Woody.....


......except his grandkids.......


....who call him "Jiddee" which is Arabic for Grandpa.


He has 24 grandkids, six of which are mine.


He has a bunch of great-grandkids......a ball park figure might be 14, with 2 more on the way.......none of which are mine. :)
A few photos.........
Taken when Marty and his siblings were a lot younger :)
Those clothes and that hair reek of the seventies :)



Marty, Beth & Christopher in front
Woody & Marilyn, the parental figures....and Bill & David in back
And, a handful of photos from Woody's visit to Our Hearts' Haven in April 2008:


Woody & I making Tabouli for our 2008 Lebanese Feast


Woody & a young Garrett working on the Lebanese Feast Food


The 2008 Lebanese Feast
with Gavin, Kevin, Patty & Sierra on the left
Marty at the head of the table, with Woody to his left, and Anne & Terri
In the back, you can see Maddelyn, Garrett, Malachy & Sarah



Jiddee with his grand-kids at Hearts' Haven, Spring 2008




Jiddee with his granddaughters.......Maddelyn, Sarah & Anne


We miss you, Jiddee, and hope you come for a visit soon!!!


We love you, Jiddee!!!



HAPPY BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS TO YOU!!



Love your family at Hearts' Haven!
PS Welcome to the Internet! :)


Monday, October 12, 2009

Happy FIRST Birthday......

..........to my adorable little friend Liam S!!!!

I have some of the most sweet pictures of this dear little boy, youngest of eight, with number nine on the way......but the mouse on my desktop, where the photos are stored, has become quite stubborn and will not do its tricks.......so, I must delay his pictures till at least this weekend.....in the meantime, little man:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!!
With love from your friends at Our Hearts' Haven

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Happy Birthday to Aunt Beth!

Happy Birthday, Aunt Beth!







We hope & pray many blessings for you in this next year of your life!
We especially hope to see you in the next year, too....it has been too long!!
Love, your relatives at Hearts' Haven
PS..I had to "steal" your photos at facebook because my computer with pics is temporarily off-limits this week.


Saturday, October 10, 2009

It's a Picture Book Day!

Got a few titles for you....an old favorite, lately rediscovered, and three new choices.....that begged to be picked off the shelf at the library!


PECOS BILL Written & Illustrated by Steven Kellogg

This book is a cute as I remember it! Pecos Bill stories are always fun...and I was able to teach Malachy what a "tall tale" is.......and now I will use this book as a jumping point for other conversations about "tall tales." The pictures are hilarious and well-drawn, with great color. Also, this book reminds me that it has been a long time since we took a stroll through Steven Kellogg's books. The last time we went through his books, I believe Malachy was a mere infant, if he was even yet born. With Malachy's sense of humor, I think he will find Kellogg's books a kick...and I am off to the library for more!!! Garrett may not even remember these stories.

If you and your kids have not yet visited a collection of Steven Kellogg's books...DO GO FOR IT! You will have a blast....and then...we will go after Bill Peet's books, too......same situation as above....and I do not want Malachy to miss out on these great, funny authors!



CATERINA: THE CLEVER FARM GIRL by Julienne Peterson & illustrated by Enzo Giannini

Oh, my, I loved this book!!! It is based on a Tuscan Folktale......and it is delightful! I love the ending......but I cannot tell you what it is......I do not want to ruin it for you! The illustrations are lovely......in fact, it was the cover that popped off the bookshelf at the library and into my hands! Caterina, a clever farm girl charms the king with her cleverness........and, well, you must go read the book to find the rest of the story. I read it to my boys....and they enjoyed it....and I am sure any girl would love it, too. Even a mom! :)

When I went to return the book to the library......my favorite librarian was just leaving.......and she willingly stopped to read this book before she left.....we are both addicted to wonderful picture books. Maybe that is why she is my favorite? :)

I hope this author has other stories......and that our library has more books from the illustrator!

I just searched the internet...only this book as far as I can see..... :(



PAPA AND THE PIONEER QUILT BY Jean Van Leeuwen & Illustrated by Rebecca Bond

Sweet story about a papa who has "wandering feet" and keeps moving his family further west....and of his daughter who wants to make a quilt.....by collecting scraps on the way to Oregon. Sweet artwork.....sweet story....and quilts! I just love quilt stories, don't you?!



THE SQUIRE'S BRIDE by P.C. Asbjornsen & Illustrated by Marcia Sewall

Funny little story based on a Norwegian tale. I do not want to give the story away....worth the read.....nice pencil drawings...or is that pen?



We had not read any pictures books lately, except about eagles & vikings...so it was nice to have a change today!

Have a blessed picture book day, everyday!!!! Or, at least several times a week! :)

Love,

Chari

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Happy 21st Birthday, Anne!!!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DEAR ANNE!




HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!









I LOVE this photo of Anne!

It is her bio photo for "The Gazebo"







Anne, 6 weeks......with her mama.








Looks like her papa, here! Six weeks.


Our little "brown" baby





Anne, one week






Anne, first week, held by her grandpa: Georgie-Pop





On week old...

and her Grandma Marilyn Bryan, whom she has never met...

but would have loved and been loved by......





At 8 weeks......




Anne and her Papa!






Sweet girl






With her Grandma Ley at nine weeks......







Anne, at 25 months welcomes her best friend and first sibling...Matthew James



I bet Aunt beth remembers that early morning!!







Anne, at two and a half, with her Great-Aunt Sue and Uncle Tom...

.....Matthew is five months old


We miss Uncle Tom, may he rest in peace.









One of my all-time favorite pictures of Anne & Matthew!!



They are 3 years & one year, respectively.





Anne at 4 yrs, with her Great-Grandpa, Danny!


We miss you, Grandpa!





Anne, the dark child, seven months younger than her cousin Alexis, the light child.



In Eureka, CA, visiting their Great Grandparents...and YES!



They are actually eating chip crumbs off of the sidewalk.....blech!





Anne was a bumble bee in her first dance recital...
....6 years old.






Anne, 7, with the dark pig tails, and her three younger siblings


Matthew, 5


Sarah, 3


Maddelyn, 18 months


Camping at Lake Juanita






Anne, aged eight, center with siblings:


Baby Garrett 2 months

Maddelyn 2 years

Sarah 4 years

and Matthew 6 years




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So, the above was a blast from the past......


.....and below, you will find photos from 2009, just a small sampling!!!



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Anne with her two favorite men:

her father & her brother Matthew

Taken part way up Mount Shasta, Spring 2009






The two sisters, Anne & Maddelyn
Taken same place, day...see Lake Siskiyou in the background.



Anne & one of her favorite friends, Euphemia
June 2009


Anne, and her three "sisters"
Clare, a best friend...Sarah, Anne, Maddelyn
Ages: 19, 16, 20 & 14 years
Taken at Shaver Lake, Summer 2009





Anne & Maddelyn while singing in the Barbershop Choir

Taken August 2009
Anne and her "sisters"
Sarah, Anne, Maddelyn, Clare
Taken July 2009


Anne dancing at our Summer dance party, August 2009





Anne, shares her addiction to knitting, on the deck in the Sierras
Taken June 2009




Anne & Maddelyn on the set of THE GAZEBO
Anne was the director & Maddelyn the housekeeper
May 2009


Anne & her parents
August 2009


SWEET!!!
Anne & her sister Sarah
Taken July 2009

Anne & her grandpa, Georgie-Pop
Taken August 2009




Anne graduates with her Associates Degree in English
May 2009, with her most favorite teacher, Eve





Anne, May 2009
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We are so proud of you, Anne!
We wish you many blessings on this birthday and forever!!!
We miss you!!!
We love you!!!
Love,
your family waiting for you at Our Hearts' Haven


PS....I LOVE how much living green is in these photos!!

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Birthday Blessings to One of My Favorite People!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, GLORIA!!!!
We rejoice that God picked you for our friend!!!
What a gift you are!!!
You are like a sister, only better.....as we agree on practically everything!!! :)
Below, you will see Gloria holding my godson, Benedict Michael....aka her son. :)
First, at a community pool for Catherine's 10th birthday party,
and then at Castle Lake during our Catholic Homeschooling Campout, 2009.
And lastly, Gloria with her beautiful sister, Suzanne.
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We love you!!!



We miss you!!!




Have a blessed day!!!!
Love,
Chari
Marty
Anne
Matthew
Sarah
Maddelyn
Garrett
Malachy
Sadie
&
Strider

Friday, October 2, 2009

Happy Birthday to My Dear Friend & A Favorite Sweet Girl!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR WILLA!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!

October 3rd







From left to right........




FRONT ROW: Malachy, Maddelyn, Anne, Liam, Aidan, Patrick, Keiron, Willa


SECOND ROW: Chari, Sarah, Clare, Sean, Garrett

BACK ROW: Brendan, Matthew



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Though we live about 8 hours from each other......


7.5 hours when Willa drives.......9 hours when I drive...




(.....for some strange reason.....go figure......)


......our families are the best of friends......like sisters.....like brothers.....


This year marks ten years that we have known each other......


......at least via phone & emails....


........which is how we originally communicated (the first two years) ........


.......and still do........


but sometimes........we actually get to visit each other!


This was one of those special years.....we got a week.....TWICE!


Once in the south......and once in the north.......


This photo is possibly the last one where we get all seven of Willa's kids and all six of mine in one photo....as the older ones begin to move on.......taken minutes before we left their home in June, after a week's visit.



TRIVIA: Did you know that our families have the same last name, practically???



Our name just has one extra letter in front! :)


BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS, MY FRIEND!!!!




We miss you all!


Love, Chari & the gang at Hearts' Haven!



AND.........since it is birthday season.......


We wish a very happy birthday to our friend Sierra, who is turning 17 years old today!


She is well-loved in this family, like a sister to my girls.



I have SO many wonderful pictures of Sierra from the past year......I will have to limit myself, or I will be here all night. She is actually sitting in my living room right now as I write this....visiting with my girls........


.......a handful, or two, of random photos of the last five months......







Sierra played the female lead opposite Matthew in "THE GAZEBO" last May





Matthew & Sierra walked the streets in their costumes.....

...everyone thinks this is a photo taken in the 1950's. :)






This was the press release photo of "THE GAZEBO"


Matthew as Elliott Nash & Sierra as his wife Nell







A scene from "THE GAZEBO"





Sierra's Bio photo




Sierra is the eldset of eight children with #9 on the way! She is an amazing big sister. She has six younger brothers, and one little sister. She is taking her turn at the pool watching Benjamin.

Sarah & Sierra are great friends......
......God gave them to each other just when they needed each other........


Matthew & Sierra dancing at our Summer outdoor dance party in August.


Sierra, Maddelyn & Anne while we took a firld trip to the Lava Beds National Monument in early septemper this year.


This photo is so sweet!

This is Sierra & her next youngest brother Kyle.

They are great friends.

HAPPY & BLESSED BIRTHDAY to you, Sierra!!!

Love, Chari & family.....

PS See you tonight!!!

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Happy Birthday to Kaydance!!!

It seems to be birthday season around here, eh?


Happy Birthday, Kaydance!!!!

From your cousins at Our Hearts' Haven




Here are the latest pictures......all taken August 2009





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Kaydnace & Maddelyn
1st Cousins & Great Friends

Kaydance & Sarah
Second Cousin & Friends


The brown haired, blue-eyed Girl


Girls that have grown up together, most since birth....old now :)
Winona~Euphemia~Maddelyn~Anne~
~KAYDANCE~
~Sarah~Talullah~Sarah~India~
Sister groups share the same color......and Kaydance's two sisters are missing.....and Sarah has a missing sister......
Also.........this is by order of HEIGHT.........not age.....if you wonder why Anne is stuck near the younger girls.......even though she is the oldest
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And lastly, I share the last photo my old camera took before is quit......a photo I adore.....because I wanted to get to Disneyland when it oponed and these three were the only ones out of at least 15 kids who wanted to get going, too, on our last day there......and, because they are so sweet.....

My Sarah and my nieces Kaydance & Venice
September 2008
WE LOVE YOU, KAYDANCE!!!
And MISS YOU, TOO!!!
Birthday Blessings!
Love, Aunt Chari

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Two Cousins......Two Birthdays Today! And, maybe another!

September 28th is the day my kids remember two of their cousins' birthdays........



First, we begin with Hudson, who is Malachy's TWIN COUSIN, because they are only three weeks apart in age........here we see the two of them in a photo journal. Hudson, since he was quite young, has always been goofy in front of the camera whenever we try to take a photo of the two of them together......the birthday boy is the one with the glasses...he is EIGHT years old today!!!! The fella in the green is my wee fella........Malachy.



HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HUDSON!!!!!!



We love you & miss you & pray you have a blessed day!!!!!























Then, their Cousin Suzanne.......who is probably the cutest baby & toddler I have ever seen......was also born on this day......23 years ago. I remember when her father called to tell me her mom was in labor, so I could pray for her......one of my favorite things to do.......pray for a woman "in the pangs of childbirth"....which, interestingly enough.......is where Suzanne will be finding herself soon, as she is expecting her third child soon. We are remembering her, and her sister Clara and her sister-in-law Christine who are also due soon....Clara any moment...in our daily Memorare for expectant moms.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO SUZANNE!!!


Here are two photos of Suzanne in her early years......so adorable.








Below is a photo of the last time we saw Suzanne, in the summer of 2007, due any moment with her second child, Emily. Seated with her is her husband Adam and their adorable child, Benjamin.






And, the other birthday we will celebrate today is for PATTY, our friend, who we see or talk to almost daily.........kind enough to tutor my wayward children in math. :) Oh, and sewing, too!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DEAR PATTY!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
Birthday blessings to all of you!
Please leave a note of greeting if you like for the birthday folks.....
With love,
Chari





Saturday, September 26, 2009

A Little Ballroom Dancing!


Here are two videos of the four younger children and their friends dancing on an August Saturday night at "open ballroom" held in a hall built in 1906...where generations of people have danced....and where the swing was danced in its hey day! They had only had one lesson as of that night...and have since improved....more videos later.....

I am still trying to figure out why I have no sound on my videos......sorry about that! Just play any song on your computer......it will work! Even if it is Lynyrd Skynyrd...ask me how I know! :)

The first is Malachy, 7 yo, dancing with Peggy, one of their instructors.


video


Looks like Garrett, 12 yo & Sarah, 16 yo are dancing below.....followed by Dan, 19yo, dancing with the instructor, peggy.......and then Sierra, 16 yo & her brother Kyle, 15 yo....and my Maddelyn, 14 yo, dancing with Gavin, 17 yo. You may notice a cute little 7 yo "waltzing" throughout the video....he was partnerless....and wanting to dance....so...what's a fella to do, but dance with an imaginary partner!


video

Have a blessed Sunday!

Love, Chari

Friday, September 25, 2009

Clever Video!



I think some of my usual readers.....all three of you!.... may find this enjoyable!
I like the music.



Blessings on your day!
Love, Chari

Thursday, September 24, 2009

My Sweet Godson Turns One Year Old Today!!


Happy birthday to Buster!


It was such a blessing to be asked to be Benedict's godmother....and, it has been such a blessing to watch him grow and reach those month-by-month developmental milestones.


I have seen him most of the months of his first year, and sometimes, I even took pictures of him. :)



We follow a year in the life of Benny!






Just a day before his October baptism.......at three weeks of age.







Same.......







A bath before he is baptized........








As the Baptismal ceremony starts........a Lebanese priest, Bennie's parents: John & Gloria, and his god parents, Uncle Billy and me, holding the wee babe.....







Bennie wanted to scream during the ceremony........he was willing to suck on my finger :)








Newly baptized & now a Child of God.....

...held by his 80-something grandmother......compare their hands...lovely.







Held by his one and only brother, after a bath at my house at about age 4 months.






The five month old with the drooly face.......


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Now, down below follows a photo story of a visit to my house in May, whereby his father, John, introduces him to my Golden Retrievers, Sadie & Strider.......who love 7 month old Bennie, of course......and find that he tastes pretty good when they get a lick or two in.........
















This is my FAVORITE photo of Benny, so far!







Gotta love that smile.......all three of them! :)








Is he cute????!!!!






















Eight months old.......and walking around furniture......at my house.






Same........





Swimming at Castle Lake during our annula catholic Homeschool campout.........

Cute.....8 months old.






Hanging with dad at the lake! Notice the clone-like resemblance, since birth?? It is one of the most amazing resemblances I have ever seen!







Learning about watermelon........




Juicy!






In the above photo, John & Benny sit in the lake.....Benny started out quite unhappy.......







...slowly adjusting........





...to.....


....glee.......



video



This is 10 month old Benny entertaining the family in San Francisco.....the day Matthew left for Switzerland. He was going around in circles like a dog chasing his tail...till the video came on.......of course....




video
And, once he figured out how to clap....he gave up the tail-chasing. :)
Thank you, John & Gloria, for the opportunity to be a spiritual mother to your sweet son.
I am very excited to watch him grow and I promise to help you take good care of him...and to take lots of pictures for you! :)
Love and blessings on this birthday day!
Love, Chari

Monday, September 14, 2009

Happy Birthday to a One Year Old!



Our sweet little Jaylen...............


...............is one today!

She still looks like her great-grandma.
Jaylen is my youngest sister's youngest.
Is she sweet, or what?
Here is what the little darling had to say on her birthday..........
video
She is freaking out over the sound of the mixer, while they make her birthday cupcakes.
Grandma........you must play this!
Jaylen.........we wish you many happy cupcakes, Sweetie!
Love,
Aunt Chari & Uncle Marty & Cousins

Thursday, September 10, 2009

I knew I would be Betsy Ray!

How about you? Take the quiz and see!





Which Betsy-Tacy character are you?
Your Result: Betsy Ray
 

As a child, Betsy is lively and imaginative, a story-teller and a ring-leader. As she grows up, Betsy is popular with both boys and girls because of her fun spirit and love of a good time. She loves traditions, having fun, parties, and boys, but she sometimes undervalues herself and her talents. In the end she learns to love her true self and comes to realize and value her love of writing, and makes her dream a reality. Although she has had many beaus, she ends up with the one best suited to her (Joe Willard!), who understands her love of writing and encourages her to be her real self.

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Which Betsy-Tacy character are you?
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lotsa love,

Chari

Monday, August 31, 2009

My Hearts' Haven Daybook

Written on Monday evening, August 30th


Outside My Window.......a lovely sunny day easing away into a lovely evening.

I am thinking........I wish someone else would set up the curriculum for the three kids, out of four, that still need their school planning organized.

Also...it has been a long time since I blogged....I enjoy using this "script" to know what to write next :) my grandma will be surprised that I actually wrote something! :)

I am thankful for...my husband who works hard for us and carries the heavy burden of financing this family. Not easy when stupid things are allowed to happen to make cell phone bills unnecessarily increase. Sigh......that would be my fault.

From the kitchen.........there is an awful lot of squash sitting on my kitchen counter. We already ate as it is almost 8 pm.........leftover hamburgers for the little boys and me....not sure what the girls ate....

I am wearing........a lovely thrift store find....a long skirt with criss crosses and flowers on a blue background....and a nice blue knit shirt. Sandals.....hair is down....but not long anymore......

I am creating........curriculum, lesson plans.......though my scrapbooking is calling to me......sigh

I am going...........to drive home from the college where I am parked in the hallway of the theater waiting for my four children & their friends to finish their Ballroom Dancing class.......and watch our current family series......one episode at a time......while working on curriculum. Of.course.

I am reading.........I am over halfway through Walden; Or Life in the Woods by Henry David Thoreau. Reading Back of the North Wind by George MacDonald aloud to the boys......not much.......we need to get back into our reading habit....our copy of the book is 100 uyears old!!!.........right now I am waiting on the library to bring me some books I need.......in the meantime......it would be nice to update my blog with my reading since I last posted about books. This summer I have read the first seven Betsy-Tacy books:

Betsy-Tacy (1940)
Betsy-Tacy and Tib (1941)
Betsy and Tacy Go Over the Big Hill (1942)
Betsy and Tacy Go Downtown (1943)
Heaven to Betsy (1945)
Betsy in Spite of Herself (1946)
Betsy Was a Junior (1947)
Betsy and Joe (1948)
Betsy and the Great World (1952)

And then, here is an edited post I wrote recently on the 4 Real Book Club:

"I still have the last Betsy-Tacy book to go.........been slow at the library.........but in the meantime, I just finished EARLY CANDLELIGHT by Maud Hart Lovelace. Here is HER description of the story:

"My second novel was Early Candlelight (John Day Co. 1939, later Grosset and Dunlap and the Minnesota Historical Society Press.) In the course of my research for "The Black Angels", I had read Folwell's History of Minnesota and was fascinated by the life at Fort Snelling in the early decades of the Nineteenth Century... with its gay routine of dinners, balls and picnics in the midst of Indian country. The story includes the founding of St. Paul. The love scene in the next to last chapter takes place at the meeting of the Minnesota and Blue Earth Rivers, where Mankato's Sibley Park would later be built."

I loved it........She writes so well! Much better writing than the BT books....as those are kind of like candy .........but this was a very well written novel.......clean and historical. I think is was the writing and the way she helped me get to know the characters so intimately that got me. The story itself is simple enough.......I could not sleep last night so I got up and read it till 1:45am.....oops! I finished it today......and I am so sorry........I miss the main characters so much.

I also read this summer by the same author: EMILY OF DEEP VALLEY, WINONA'S PONY CART

I ADORED the Emily story immensely, even a bit better than the Betsy-Tacy stories........Emily is such a wonderful girl! If you love BT and have not read this........DO!!! The Winona story was young......kind of like an American Girl story.

And lastly and finally!!!! I have read LEFT TO TELL by Immaculée Ilibagiza.

Have you ALL read this book??? I know it was popular when it came out, but my library did not have it......and finally a friend received a copy to lend to me. I could not put this book down. What lessons this woman can teach us about thankfulness, fear, love, forgiveness, FAITH, the rosary.....

Here are words from her website:

Immaculée Ilibagiza is a living example of faith put into action. Immaculée's life was transformed dramatically during the 1994 Rwandan genocide where she and seven other women spent 91 days huddled silently together in the cramped bathroom of a local pastor's house. Immaculée entered the bathroom a vibrant, 115-pound university student with a loving family - she emerged weighing just 65 pounds to find her entire family had been brutally murdered (with the exception of one brother who had been studying out of the country). Immaculée credits her salvage mostly to prayer and to a set of rosary beads given to her by her devout Catholic father prior to going into hiding. Anger and resentment about her situation were literally eating her alive and destroying her faith, but rather than succumbing to the rage that she felt, Immaculée instead turned to prayer. She began to pray the rosary as a way of drowning out the negativity that was building up inside her. Immaculée found solace and peace in prayer and began to pray from the time she opened her eyes in the morning to the time she closed her eyes at night. Through prayer, she eventually found it possible, and in fact imperative, to forgive her tormentors and her family's murderers.

You can find the rest here.

READ THIS BOOK if you have not yet....... "

And now......I just finished yesterday: Carney's House Party, also by Maud Hart Lovelace. I loved it! It was so sweet and fun and good to be back in Deep Valley where even Betsy came for a visit!

I am hoping.............it feels like summer for a good two more months....wouldn't that be lovely?

And, SEE ABOVE: I am thinking.......

I am hearing......Cha, Cha, Cha music and a practicing orchestra.....I especially hear the horns and the clarinets.

I wonder if that is because I am sitting in a college music dept?? Last week we also had the Barbershop singing...but they are somewhere else tonight.

I am wondering.......if the curriulum planning would get done on its own while I sleep......

Around the house.......yikes...the house needs some serious help ! My desk and dressers are covered with stuff......the living room is full of curriculum, Lincoln Log buildings and Matthew's clothes awaiting the final pack-up by me. The dining room has a table covered in books and some stuff.....and the boys room needs help...and the rest of Matthew's stuff accounted for.......and two rooms need painting......and I already have the paint. sigh.

Now Showing..........Ocean's 11 and 12........James Herriot's All Creatures Great and Small, half way through the first season......

In the schoolroom.....hmmmmm.....I am guessing the notes about curriculum above would make one think there would be nothing going on here......yet.....

......but......as we actually live a life of learning, not simply school-at-home....I can claim to some learning going on.......such as ballroom dance lessons, soccer, piano lessons and practicing, listening to Schubert, an occasional math page this week.....definitely some reading...including one of my more current delayed readers picking up a book and reading chapter after chapter.....a simple book...but it IS a chapter book!

And, my youngest has decided to read through Go, Dog, Go.....and several have been poring over the Great Books from Usborne lately.......The Sea and Through Time....the high schoolers are reading Beowulf and Christopher Columbus for their history......watching All Creatures Great & Small (that's literature brought to life, of course).......we also attended a chamber music concert...visited Lake Tahoe.......

There, now I feel better.......there IS something happening here!!!

One of my favorite things.........knowing we have the Rosary prayed for the day already!

Signs of the seasons............cooling nights, an abundance of squash from the garden, and other vegetable goodies.......and a big pumpkin already turned orange!

A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week........soccer games and practice.......teach a childbirth class....start math lessons with Patty........Anne will be home for the Labor Day weekend and the G Family from San Francisco will be here, too.......leading a large group to the Lava Beds National Monument on Saturday.......plus the usual!

Special prayer requests on my mind this week.........for a special intention, for Molly whose husband is ill.......for our priest who is having problems with a leg and with walking.

St. Gerard's List..........Tonia, Suzanne, Jody, Suzanne, Clara.......the last two are nieces......

I am currently scrapbooking......ah, I wish!!!....I have not had a chance to scrapbook since the last week of June, at Willa's home.......I read a scrapbook magazine from Creative Memories, the last issue e.v.e.r and their new book, too......

I am exercising.........well, I am thinking about how I need to get back to the walking......


Here is picture thought I am sharing........

ack...blogger is not letting me load a photo at this time......I will try another time....



Was writing this blogpost avoidance behavior? I wonder......

Blessings,

Chari

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Matthew is moving to Switzerland for a year!!!

I tried to write the story below in the spring......and then busy-ness got the best of me......and forgetfulness.......that I was working on it at all. :) So, I am posting it now........without editing.........and perhaps in the future will finish it......and, it just ends suddenly. :)

We are about to leave for San Francisco where we will spend two days with the G-Family and get to mass and confession on Sunday and then he will fly out on Monday morning........to Minneapolis-St. Paul........Amsterdam.........and finally Zurich, Switzerland. See you later and thanks for the prayers!


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I know most of you know that already.........but, just for posterity's sake, I will write about our journey to the point at which we have now arrived....which is in no way the end, of course........it is barely the beginning, :)

Where to start?

How about the summer before last? That would be the summer of 2007. Matthew, who is the lead character in this story, was 16 years old. He had been having frequent conversations with my sweet friend Sheila........and their conversations were revolving around the Rotary Youth Exchange Program. Sheila had much recent experience with this program due to the fact that her oldest daughter, Katie, was about to leave for Germany for a year. That summer, Matthew was begging me to look into it....but gave me a deadline of "by the end of summer." Well, with only a month to decide if he could apply, and my reluctance to send him out of the country so far away from me........and still not fully recovered from our Star Spangled Adventure......and in the middle of six weeks of play rehearsals for three plays.....I could not let myself look into it. It was overwhelming. He was disappointed.......but apparently not discouraged.

Flash forward one year...summer of 2008. I am now more relaxed. Matthew has been spending time actually doing his research at Rotary International. He is a year older....more wise in his approach. :) Now, he can give me info he has gathered. Now he has Katie's positive experience in Germany, as she returned this same summer. While we were visiting friends in the Sierras, he filled out the form on Rotary International's webpage "requesting further information." He had a hard time reducing his choices of countries to only 3-5. Of course, all of my travel-loving kids would be happy to go anywhere....but where to choose to go for a whole year? Where???

He finally put in order of choice:

Italy
Spain
France
Scotland
Germany

He loves history.....really LOVES history.......and he wanted to go immerse himself in European history. Of course, he would be satisfied with any country. He is one of my kids......

He pushed "submit" and sent his request.

About six weeks later, in mid-September, he received a phone call from a gentleman who lives about an hour south of us. They must have spoken on the phone for an hour or more. I found out later that this man is very talkative and he is very enjoyable with which to chat. He gave Matthew some local contact people. I knew both of them, and since one of them, Frank, worked at the hospital....I decided to just drop in to see him one day while he was working. We discussed what Matthew needed to do. He gave me the number of someone to call. He also asked me if I were willing to take in an exchange student from somewhere as part of the deal. I explained that this did not feel like the right time in our lives to do that. Frank said it is kind of assumed that if you are sending a student OUT of your home, you would therefore have room to bring one IN. I informed Frank that I did not even have room for the student I was sending OUT! :)

So, I called the contact given to me by Frank, and it turns out to be the same man who had called Matthew about two months before, by the name of Mark. We talked for an hour and a half. I learned so much information. It was very helpful, and enlightening. He said they were having some trouble with Italy's Youth Exchange.....that France was kind of a "pain" to get into......you have to meet their ambassador and be approved by them, in person........that they discouraged English speaking countries for US citizens...so that left Scotland off the list. The one thing he did not know about was whether Matthew's lack of vaccinations would be a deterrent from his applying. Mark said he was leaving the following weekend to vist Dave, who was in charge of all of Northern California Rotary Youth Exchange, and he was sure Dave would know the answer. In the meantime, Mark wanted me to contact the local Rotary Clubs to see if any would sponsor Matthew to travel. He also said that if we could not find a local club to sponsor Matthew, that he would find him a club, even if he had to go all the way to the Bay Area. He was very enthusiastic and supportive.

By this time, we had already printed off a copy of the lengthy application. It was going to be time-consuming....oh, yes....time-consuming.

So, I checked on the website and got all of the contact names for the three clubs in our county. I called the ones in my town first, but found they were out of town. I tried the town north of us.....and a man said that their club had already turned down someone that week, that they did not have enough funds to sponsor anyone this year. I never even left my name......that will make sense later. So, I finally called the little town south of us...only to find a most amiable and pleasing personage with which to have a pleasant chat. His name was Steve, and he was to be our contact person for the next two months. He asked me to send an email to him, writing about Matthew, so he could tell his club about Matthew. It was a pretty good email, if I do say so myself. :) As Steve is the treasurer for his Rotary Club, he told me their club had enough funds to send Matthew, and later, even two if they wanted. He told me that because someone else in their club knew of a a boy who wanted to go......but that boy never went past "being interested."

Steve also wanted me to try to follow up on the club in my own town to see if they would sponsor Matthew, or share the sponsorship. He said they had not had an exchange student in a good while and he wanted to encourage them. So, I went to see another member of the local club, who I also knew. He said: "When you bring me the application, then we will look at it and see what we think." He was kind of vague and I could see they really did not want to do it. The application is quite lengthy as I said....and it has so many places where you need to put the "sponsoring" club....and I just felt better filling out for someone who wanted to sponsor Matthew.

I called Steve and updated him on how it went with the club in my town. He agreed to just have Matthew send it all to their club and they would sponsor him and he would also talk with the other club himself.

Matthew and I spent a good amount of time filling the form out accurately. A GOOD DEAL!

He needed to have a dental check and papers signed by the dentist. We had his orthodontist take care of that since he had been seeing him since he was one year old. We had to mail one form, have him fill it out........make four copies and then sign each copy in blue ink.

Then, I called our primary MD and they said no adult physicals till February. Well that was not soon enough. So, I asked them to leave a message asking if they could fit him in sooner....they would ask the doctor. The doctor is a friend of mine. In the meantime, I made an appointment with another doctor friend of mine, just to get it done. I got a phone call later that day from our doctor's nurse, Kathy........they said they could see him that week or the next....since he is only 18...........they do not consider him "adult" yet. :) They had openings for "youth physicals" just not for "adults. Actually, I made the phone call two days before his 18th birthday.....so, I guess it could have gone either way. Again, David, the doctor, needed to fill out one form, then copy it and sign all four in blue ink. On the part about vaccinations, David wrote: not had, or something to that effect. But first Matthew needed a TB test before David could sign it. Luckily the nurse said we could come in on that Saturday............

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.........and that is where I left off............and here we are now!

Let me know if you need his contact info!

Love,

Chari

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Haven Heartbeats

Dear Grandma,

Hi, there! Just thought I would jot a letter off to you this morning.

I have a feeling all of my children will be sleeping in till at least ten am. They had a party last night. It was supposed to have happened last Thursday night while we had friends in town.........but, a few folks got sick so we had to postpone. The party was a barbeque followed by "a dance." Even last night a few folks could not come due to more illness. Ha, ha...I guess that includes me, too! I woke up yesterday am with nausea and malaise. I slept most of the day. Horizontal was the most comfortable position and reading, computering and watching movies was dizzying. By late evening I felt good enough to grab some photos of the party.

The dance was held on the front lawn where Matthew had mown a dance floor in the grass. He then used his theater lights to surround the dance floor with lights, including colored. He took the stereo outside, too. There was a table set up with punch and desserts. I know the kids had a great time......and they had to be made to quit dancing at 1am. I hope the neighbors are not too mad at us. :/ There was a lot of swing dancing (Matthew did not re-injure his knee! :) ), dancing to 80's and 50's music and the Virginia Reel, of course. The crowd was 12 to 23 years old, except for 7yo Malachy, who came in at one point and told me, "I am having so much fun dancing out there!" And he sure did, trying to keep up with the big boys! There were sixteen total, till Marty came home and joined the dancing. He had been home earlier and did the barbequing for the kids. All I did was lay in my bed. :)

When I looked out at the crowd of kids, all I saw were homeschoolers. Funny, there was a time when the kids didn't really have many friends.......and now, they actually have a bit of a social life. One of the things I love about homeschooled kids is their ability to interact well with people of all ages, and you could really see that last night. Except for two guests, all of the guests were present with at least one to two more more of their siblings. That is another thing I love about homeschool kids: how well they can socialize in their sibling groups. They were such a great group of kids! Our friends who had been visiting the week before were greatly missed......and this was mentioned on several occasions from several of my children.

I have to say, since this dance was a success, I do believe there will be plans to do this at least once each summer. What joy to dance with your friends, under the light of a full moon!

The clean-up does not look too bad this morning.

Marty came home last night in a new car for Anne. She will not actually get to own it, but use it while she is away at college. It is a 2001 Honda Accord, 2 door. I just went out and peeked at it. It is immaculate inside, with leather seats. It is gold metallic and formerly owned by a grandmother who only put 40,000, miles on it. Looks great! Anne will be putting daily miles on it since she will live with Jennifer in the south of town.....and the university is in the north of town. Anne said she loved driving it last night. Marty is so good to his kids.

Speaking of Anne and school, we will move her over on the 16th, probably, and we will stay a week to visit with our family there. Anne has an orientation day on the 20th. She starts school on the 24th. She is excited, but worried these classes will be more challenging than the JC. We all just keep telling her she will be fine. :) She will be taking Spanish, an English class, a drama class and something else....all are basic UNR requirements.

And as for Matthew, he will be flying out of San Francisco International Airport on Monday the 10th, our 24th wedding anniversary. It looks like I will drive him down with at least a couple of my kids. We will stay with our friends, John and Gloria. We still have a lot to do to get him ready. He needs patches sewn on his Rotary jacket, to narrow his packing down and load in the duffle bag, or two, to pick up a few more gifts for his host families (and wrap them), learn to iron, and to make a DVD of his life here. I am sure there is more......but these are the priorities. I will start working on the patches when I finish this letter.

Our garden is doing well, but desperately needs weeding.......kids are going to have to go do that today! Our chicks are getting so big......it is funny to hear them still peeping. They are nine weeks now. They are nice group of ladies. So, far, I think I only have one rooster...but still too early to tell for sure. After a few losses, we are down to 42 now.

We ran out of hot water yesterday.......actually, we ran out of fuel to heat our water. Apparently, the float is not working right, and we missed the getting low sign. I just got a call that the guy can bring fuel today........I am glad......I need a shower, a load of laundry washed and have a full dishwasher.

I am getting sleepy now, so I will sign off. It was nice to get to use Anne's new laptop while laying on the couch to write this. Matthew has a new laptop as well.....and I will inherit Anne's old lap top for use around here for me and the other kids.

Goodbye and God bless, for now,

Love, Chari

Friday, July 31, 2009

There's Taiko in Our Future!

I am so excited!


WE are so excited!


Marty scored 8 comp tickets for us to go see an internationally acclaimed Taiko Drum concert.



It's the Shasta Yama 2009!

Don't know what Taiko drumming is??? Wikipedia tells us here.......all about it.


And here is a promotional video:










Here is video of San Francisco Taiko performing:






The founder of SF Taiko, founded in 1968, will be preforming tonight, too. He brought Taiko to the West Coast.


A few of my friends have drummed over the years............and one of our young friends will be in this concert.

We used to go and watch them rehearse at the city park after ballet class and after play rehearsals.

One time we saw them in a mini-concert for an extended care facility............and I was very pregnant with Maddelyn. She went wild in the womb when the drumming played! It was so funny! The room was too small for all of that drumming.......but it was good!

I have always loved listening to them.....and watching them. But, I could not afford tickets to go see their concerts.....soooo this is so exciting!

The concert will be outdoor and Mt Shasta will be the backdrop for the show. Lawn sitting with a picnic. Doesn't that sound lovely? I was just reading in another article that one of the performers thinks this may be the largest outdoor Taiko concert in the US....with "world class musicians."

How cool is that?

Post note: Our plans are tempered with the fact that the two youngest fellas threw up in the middle of the night........though seem fine right now. Please pray it all works out!!

Many blessings on your day!!

Love, joy and prayers!

Chari


Friday, July 3, 2009

SARAH SINGS THE NATIONAL ANTHEM......

.....for our community's Fourth of July celebration tomorrow!


Our town has frequently been voted the best small town 4th of July celebration.........and it attracts 6,000-10,000 visitors every year.


The day starts with a FUN WALK/RACE........at 8:30am sharp


.......then there are prizes given away.........including a new car every year. At least once it was won by a kid.


There is an all-you-can-eat breakfast at the local Catholic Church.


There is a street fair for four days.


There are happenings at our parks.


At noon, the parade starts. It is not all that interesting of a parade, but we used to go every year. Garrett will be in it this year with his baseball team that won the season.


Then, we head to the lake with lots of food.......because we will be there till midnight! The fireworks over the lake are wonderful and every year we have more and more friends join us........last year I bet we reached 50 people. This year I think may go up!


Then..............we go home, absolutely exhausted! :)


And, the parade is always started off with the NATIONAL ANTHEM.



And, THIS year, it will be sung by our own Miss Sarah!






She will have her biggest audience yet.......and probably will never be able to top this number in the future. And, it is her first public singing performance.


We will take any prayers for her to do her best, of course!



Saint Cecilia, patron saint of musicians,


PRAY FOR US!


Happy Fourth of July!!!




With love from,
Chari & the family at Our Hearts' Haven




Tuesday, June 30, 2009

If you are wanting homeschool room inspiration.....

You have got to see my friend Jennifer's learning room!

Look what you can do with a dining room!

In fact, if you check out Jennifer's blog at anytime you will find inspiration.

Have a lovely day!

Love, chari

A Wig-Wam in the Woods


A few years back, my family and Willa's family, took to the road, to spend a day exploring Yosemite. It was our one and only visit. At that time, our boys were quite impressed by the indian homes there. When we returned to Willa's home, they built their own indian home. It took a few years, but it eventually returned to the earth.


Before we arrived for our visit this year, they made plans to build a new one. Having more years of life experience under their belts, they were able to visualize something more involved.


Here is the photo story.......


Matthew, on crutches, took on the role of Ramses, building his "pyramids" with his little slaves: Keiron 13, Garrett 12, Aidan 10, Malachy 7 & Paddy 6.
We were quite amused.




An overall view of where the wigwam is to be.




Matthew & his crutches.





Aidan is digging a place for the opening-see the rocks in the foreground...literally......placed to hold that end of the wigwam.





A close-up of the rock work.



Matthew, bossing.......I mean, leading and guiding.





Matthew showing them how it is done right. Aidan & Garrett look on.





Keiron & Garrett swinging their axes...part I





...and have swung their axes.......part II




Final product: The morning after their first sleep out in the wigwam. Garrett, Keiron, Sean & Matthew slept out there the first night. The second night it was just Matthew and Sean......and it ended in the morning with them running inside due to unexpected thundershowers!





Detail of the inside wall.......





Another detail of the inside walls.......



Yet another detail of the inside wall......



Detail of upper part of the inside wall




Detail of the upper part from the outside



The boys are still inside......


Close-up of the boys: Sean, 16 (Willa's) & Matthew, 18 (mine)




Detail of the bark

Finished product!



My favorite view...out the top!


The view of Willa's house from the wig wam.


Tomorrow we say goodbye to the wigwam......till who knows when.....
And to Willa's family, too....till July? Maybe!
Oh, wait! Tomorrow IS July...well, maybe till later in July!
Please pray for our drive tomorrow....
......I expect to be no less than ten hours on the road....ugh!
Love & Blessings!
Chari

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Haven Heartbeats

Dear Grandma,

How are you? How's the weather been?

We are in the Sierras at my friend's house. They live about 5, 500 feet...almost 2, 000 feet more than us. The weather has been perfect here...lovely summer temperatures. Willa and I have been able to get three long walks in. I had trouble sleeping the last two nights and was too sleepy to go yesterday and today. I hope tomorrow and Tuesday will fare better. We leave for home on Wednesday. We arrived here last Tuesday.

The boys built a wigwam. Their backyard is the woods and they got their building materials from there. It is pretty clever. Matthew, on crutches, was the taskmaster and the four younger boys were his slaves, uh, I mean his helpers. It reminded me of Ramses bossing Moses around in The Ten Commandments. :) Tonight, four of the boys are sleeping in the wigwam. Here's to hoping the mosquitoes leave them alone tonight! I will take a picture tomorrow...maybe I will post it...IF I remember. :)

Today we drove down to Fresno for Mass. It was 88* in the mountains...but it got to 109* in the city. UGH! I told the kids that I begged God to never allow me to live in a place that gets that hot. I would melt...they could just bury me and be done with it. I will not do heat. At least with the cold...I always have my leggings. :)

I have done a few pages of scrapbooking here. Maybe five? I think the next five are lined up and ready to go. I am working on Anne at six-seven weeks. Slowly, but surely, I just might catch up....oh, probably not. I just keep taking more and more and more........pictures. Sigh.

Marty is at home working on fixing things.....he took the lattice off the front porch...will be sanding and staining the deck...he got the sprinkler system convinced to turn to AM after midnight now.......tried to poison the clovers in the grass, but has now resorted to using a natural way to eradicate some of the clover......he hung the big feeders for the chicks who are four weeks as of yesterday.......and he "cleaned" out the well system. He said he found a dead chick today, with no obvious reason why. I hope it is not disease. We have about 40 hens. I only got one rooster......but, lucky us........they threw a FREE rooster in our order. Marty says I only get to keep one. I have about 20 breeds...I like the variety.

Well, it looks like it is after midnight now....so I will go to bed now.

Goodnight! We all love you!

Chari

Monday, June 22, 2009

Welcome to Workboxes!

I originally began writing this post in early June...and have only just been able to post....sorry for the delay to my friends who had been waiting. :)


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I cannot stop thinking about.....
homeschool workboxes
........I cannot stop thinking about the possibilities. I am simply giddy about a "new" approach in homeschooling, for the first time in a loooong time........I can't wait to get started......but I have been simply too crazy busy to start!

I think my life is still too busy to start, but I have been looking around my home, seeing what I could use or tweak to work, without much investment. I have been perusing the storage bin aisles at the stores and have hit the dollar store, too. I need to make this inexpensive. I simply must.

I really need to get this written up in one place, so I can share it with all of my friends. I know so many who would find this a very useful idea. And, as this is NOW the prime time for homeschool planning for the next year.......I need to be in a hurry!

I particularly think my friends Frances, Maria, Willa could make good use of this idea......for various reasons. I think Shawna & Stacey would like it, too!

I first heard about this idea on Brigid's blog. I remember thinking how clever it sounded........and the usual thought: "I wish I had known about this when my kids were younger." I always forget that I still have a couple of young kids. :)

Then it was brought up on the 4 Real homeschool message boards in March. I skimmed the first messages and treated it like everything else new: I" do not have time to look into anything new......besides, nothing really feels new anymore, after all of my years of homeschooling."

Then, in May, the same thread got going again, ladies wondering how those using the workbox system were doing after a few weeks.

Comments were consistently coming up, there and in other places on the Internet:

WE GET MORE DONE IN A DAY THAN WE EVER HAVE BEFORE.

WE ARE USING SO MANY HOMESCHOOL ITEMS THAT HAD JUST BEEN LYING AROUND THE HOUSE, UNUSED.

THE KIDS ARE EXCITED TO DO SCHOOL.

WE HAVE MORE FREE TIME.


Well, of course those concepts caught my eye!


I want that for ME!

I want that for MY homeschool!


At first, I thought, hmmm, Malachy (7yrs) could really go for this......he loves doing stuff........any stuff.........and he loves being creative and this would give him a chance to do that more often.

Then, I thought how well Garrett would do with more structure (we always need more structure here!).

And I thought about the days when I am at work or just unavailable.......which I hope will be less once we move Anne & Matthew out. The workboxes would be just the thing to give them for those days.

Eventually my thoughts turned to my two high schoolers........

Sarah, 10th grade, could probably benefit from a more specific plan each day. I think she would accomplish more.

And Maddelyn, soon to be 9th grade, who thrives on structure and prefers to have most decisions made for her, would probably do well with this idea......once she gets over the balking....she does not like change. Wonder where she gets that from.... :)

So, I have spent much time in researching the WORKBOXES IDEA.

I have found a yahoo group which is good for early questions and inspiration.

I have found many blog posts about this topic.

One mom made a great list about WHY WORKBOXES? I like it!

But before we go explore the 'net, let me tell you where this all got started......

There was a woman named Susan Patrick who had an autistic son, and she did a lot of research about educating him and eventually developed this idea for her son. You can find her website here and read her story here.

She wrote a book called:

Sue Patrick's Workbox System A User's Guide

Many people have started using the system without reading the book. I was planning to do that, too, but I have seen so many moms say that while it could be done without reading the book, they were so glad to have read it. I would assume with any special needs children in the family, it would be even more important to read the book. I am sure if you do it without the book, it would work just fine. I have decided to order the book as I rarely have anything I need to buy for school anymore......so I can justify this small purchase. I will share it with my friends, too. You know who you are. In fact, I just ordered it Sunday night from Amazon, along with some other good stuff. I want to have it here in time before I go to Willa's house next week. I hope it gets here. (It didn't...only part of the order arrived.....:( )

The basic premise is to have 12 boxes for each kid, and place in each box, each school day, what they need to do, from the first to the last. When they finish one box, they go to the next numbered box.

Now, that is a very basic description. But, then...this is a pretty basic idea. Checking out the links below will give you a much better overview.........since I have not actually done this. In the past we have done similar workings.....but this is more fine-tuned.

And, keep in mind: KEEP IT SIMPLE! That is always a good rule for homeschooling moms to follow! So, while you explore this idea, do not give it up right away.......study it more and spend time thinking about the possibilities.......asking God if this is a good fit for you. I can't help but think it is a good fit for so many I know!

In the meantime, I have discovered a bookshelf in the schoolroom that can be put into the boys' room for this project. And, I have purchased some bins I have used in the past.........for $1 each at the dollar store. Now, I just need to clean out the spot in the boys' room for it....and figure out where to put the stuff on those shelves. I have posted to Freecycle, looking for bookshelves. So far, no nibbles....

......since I wrote that...my friend Patty just happened to have some metal shelves I can use to replace the ones in the schoolroom. Thanks, Patty!

Well, since I started this post, someone has written an online article about workboxes.....and there are lots of links and a few photos. I think I will give you a link to it, so you can look around. Before you start clicking on the links on that page...I have highlighted the useful ones below........

Also, while Willa and I were looking for the above article, she found another good blog post with lots of links. I have also highlighted the good ones below.......

Here is a great idea for using cereal boxes for holders...great photos. I will be considering this idea because I WANT magazine holders, but cannot find any less than $5 anywhere...and some were as a high as $14

Leslie, who also has six kids (aged 2.5-15yrs) has a nice post on workboxes, with good details of what's in them. Her blog is so lovely, that I added it to my google reader. :)



A good example of one mom who tweaked the system to work for her family, using three different methods of storage.


Oh, wow! I love how this looks here! Now I see I CAN use only what I have around and have it still look good visually and make sense. I needed this visual permission. Check this out if you do not want to get a bunch of new stuff or spend money. It works! Plus, you will all chuckle at her first photo. :)


Same mom has an excellent suggestion for the "art-handicapped" mom...ideas for art in the workboxes.


Here is Candace's blog and how she is doing the system.



Tina has a wonderful testimonial to offer after the end of her first week......She also has two posts about their Do-It Door...which someone may find helpful. It is a clever idea. Post one and post two. Especially helpful to those with young elementary kids.



This mom did it exactly as recommended in the book. In fact, you can find all of her posts about the workbox system here, which includes her first few days. Be sure to read from the bottom up. A nice look into someone's home and first week using the system.


Here you can find a lovely blog and description of using with a 2nd, 1st and preschooler. She has great photos of her system. This specific post here covers what to do with the "together" activities. I like her idea.



I like Lynn's little chat about the attitude to take when approaching this system, when you cannot or will not do it exactly as the book states. She also has another approach on the numbering.



Laura has seven kids and six boxes and no room to do the full system. You can see the alternative she is using here. She is using plastic bags...and her children loved the test run so much, they want to do it for the summer! :)


This post is useful to think about what to put into the boxes: the "must haves" the "want to haves" and the "fun" extra stuff.


I like the use of these ice cube trays.......check them out for another way to organize your workboxes. She let me know that you can find them at the Dollar store, Wal-mart, Freds...where she paid 1.50 for each.

Several posts of this small family's experience....a 5yo and a 3yo. Cute kids!


The mom above interviewed her kids' reaction to workboxes.


This mom wrote a "day-in-the-life" post for the days of her 8yo and 6 yo. You get to look in each drawer.


I really like this blog. It is sweet & classy....and she has an alternative way to use the idea, when you have a family that would require 96 boxes!!!! And, based on the little bit of research I am doing, and I could be mistaken, but Leslie may have been the one who got the whole workbox discussion going online. If you scroll down her homeschool posts, you can find some are about the workboxes...and photos of her girls using the boxes.


Another nice blog by Kendra......again, start at the bottom and read each post above. These are all of her workbox posts. She has a nice sense of humor. The one at the bottom reviews the original book a bit. I have a feeling she is describing what MY reaction will be when I get a chance to read it.


A nice post.


Heather has a collection of posts...the most telling ones are at the bottom of the page. Start there and then read each post above the last. She has many photos of her kids actually doing the work. I like how she described the workboxes: "A LIVING CHECKLIST" I believe this verbalizes what I LOVE about this idea: it "livingness!" Is that a real word??? :) Spellcheck says: no way!


Cute number idea for numbering the boxes! She will even make them for YOU....for ten bucks!


List of ideas at homeschoolshare.com for putting in the boxes....expect this list to grow! I had already printed out the animal classification page for Malachy before I found this link. Our little collection of animals will go to good use!



WHAT'S IN THE BOX? The description: Suggestions, Ideas & Discussions regarding the workbox system. Could be a nice one to follow.......I think I will add it to my Google reader.



THINKING OUTSIDE THE BOX has lots of info....and the other parts of her blog are inspiring for the preschooling moms.



Good stuff for tots!



Want a resource for LOTS of worksheets? Try worksheetsworks.com! I have not used lots of worksheets in the past...but Malachy loves them...and this website looks like good filler. Oh, I found alphabetizing, maps, fractions, clocks, money, calendars, states & capitals, California puzzles, and lots more!



So, what are the kids saying about the workboxes? Find out here!



A message board about sharing workboxes, by Homeschool Share. By the way......this is a good place to find ideas for filling your workboxes. Explore if you have not been here before.



Other ways to apply the workbox idea:


How about vacation boxes? Clever!


There are lots of blog posts on workboxes for preschoolers. Since I sadly do not have any preschoolers, anymore, I mostly ignored those resources. The yahoo group above has quite a few including their preschoolers, so it is a good resource.

And, as last thought on these workboxes............


Something to think about......I like this quote Heather wrote: "Nearly every homeschooling board is humming with thoughts and questions related to this approach, which is, in essence, a structure for outlining a school day with minimal distractions. Is there more to it? Of course. But at its very heart, the Workbox System is about optimal organization. And, as we all know, organization is one of the major themes in homeschooling." Read more for an interesting take......she writes well...I like her vocabulary and way with words.

God bless, Chari



Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Haven Heartbeats

Hello!

I can only spend a moment here..........to say we are so busy........that I cannot post anything, anytime. Even now.

We have so much to do by next Monday, when we plan to leave for the Sierra Nevadas....where some of you may remember we visited last summer.......and the March before that.......and anytime we can get there. :)

We have an entire stage & set to break down and store.......a nephew from New Hampsfire is coming for a visit......John & Gloria will be here all weekend........to tired to add the rest, but it is a massive to-do list.......STILL.

Please pray for Matthew's knee to heal........it is slow-going. At least his wisdom teeth are healing well and without consequence!

Got to head to bed, after I put a load of laundry on.

Noght and God Bless!

Love, chari

PS I am working on a post.......I hope to post it soon! I have promised Frances I would hurry and get it done................I tried tonight but my computer said: NOT NOW! :)